A Transformative Experience to Explore the
Masculine & Feminine within us ALL
The Alchemy of Us
Are you ready to dive deep into yourself?
Where do you find yourself in the world today? We are living in unprecedented times; for some, it’s a black hole, and for others, it’s a blank canvas. Our systems are shifting and changing.
Now more than ever, we realize what we are looking for will not be found from outside of us but from within. Getting connected, remembering, and learning our essential nature, balancing the masculine and feminine in us all, has us be able to realign and create new systems that serve us as individuals, in relationships, and the collective whole.
Our Feminine power allows us to come from wholeness, compassion, nourishment, intuition, receptivity, and creativity. Our Masculine brings clarity, clear movement forward, protection, giving, and power. To create the lives and systems we want to live in, we need to remember and move from our wholeness.
5-Day Transformation Immersion- an experience of connecting in new ways through healing workshops, shadow work, ceremony, rituals, and live practices with real-time feedback that you can apply in your day-to-day life.
Kenyon Ranch Tubac, AZ on a 500-acre Ranch
October 15 – 19th, 2025
TOGETHER WE WILL:
Discover & Experience Our Power:
Get clear on what's not working, and discover and take action from passion and purpose.
Harmonize Our Energies:
Explore and play with familiar and new aspects of our masculine and feminine energy.
Accept Ourselves, We Are Whole:
Embrace Our Shadow, Wounds, and Traumas. Learn to see all parts of ourselves as powerful and beautiful.
Swim in the Mystery:
Dive into the deep end of the unknown. Learn to trust ourselves and to let spirit guide us.
Creating Meaningful Connections:
Make new friends, build deeper relationships, integrate and practice all that we are learning with the group even before we head home.
Are you ready to dive deep into yourself?
This is your time to unleash your voice and your truth. Shed the layers of expectations and fears and return to the raw, authentic, untamed you. Let’s:
Shed What No Longer Serves You:
Strip down to the essence, release the baggage, shed the masks, and reveal the beautiful, authentic you underneath.
Build Sacred Armor:
Craft the kind of armor that doesn’t weigh you down but protects your wild heart while keeping you open and free.
Balance Your Power:
Learn to wield your power with integrity, presence, purpose, love, and responsibility.
Align Your Masculine and Feminine Energies and Discover:
Become a master alchemist, blending the bold with the soft, the fierce with the tender, and discovering the magic that happens when you honor all parts of yourself.
Heal:
We all carry the internal and external wounds from the masculine and feminine that came before us, and these fractures impact the quality of our relationships with ourselves and others. It’s time to heal those wounds.
Commune with Spirit and Reconnect with Our Inner Wisdom
Commune with ourselves, each other, and spirit. Tap into your ancient wisdom and unlock the secrets of our soul. During this experience, we will:
Rediscover Your Gifts and Abilities:
Discover how to use your unique gifts and abilities to create a life that lights you up in every way.
Embrace Healthy vs. Wounded Polarities:
Move beyond the old stories and harmonize your masculine and feminine energies.
Cultivate Deeper Connections:
Embrace your true self, and learn to navigate complex topics within a masculine and feminine relationship.
IT'S TIME TO WRITE YOUR OWN DESTINY
It’s time to step into your power with a firm sense of self, an authentic vision for the future, and a secure knowing that you are already on your way.
FOR THE FEMININE
Step into your power like a fierce yet gentle goddess claiming the throne. Feel heard, seen, and celebrated in all your vibrant, soulful glory.
FOR THE MASCULINE
Let’s rewrite the rules. Step into a new kind of power that flows from heart, integrity, responsibility, trust, and faith.
FOR THE EMBODIMENT
Embrace your natural essence. Feel the freedom of knowing that just being you is the most powerful gift you can give to the world.
What You’ll Leave with:
Spiritual Growth
Improved communication
Clarity on your vision and purpose
Deeper relational and physical intimacy
Identified actions to move your life forward
Leadership skills for your home, life, and career
A community of courageous and growth-minded individuals
discover the alchemy of us.
Location:
Kenyon Ranch in Tubac, AZ
Dates:
October 15-19th, 2025
Time:
Arrive no later than 2:00 PM Wednesday
Leave no earlier than 2:00 PM Sunday
Book flights accordingly to attend ALL events
Travel:
Fly into Tucson International Airport (TUS). The location is 45 minutes south of Tucson. Travel costs are not included. We will help coordinate carpools from the airport.
Accommodations:
Choose between a private or shared room.
Food:
Chef-Prepared, delicious, and health-focused menu.
What’s Included
Sweat Lodge Shamanic Journey
Chef-Prepared, Health-Focused Meals
Daily Mindfulness Exercises
Daily Workshops
Physical Movement
Time Disconnected From the World and Spent in Nature
Nightly Fire Ceremonies
Spaciousness for Fun and Connection
Ontological, Spiritual, Facilitated, Deep Coaching from Four Extraordinary Coaches
Frequently Asked Questions
Absolutely. It is important to note, this is not a couples retreat, although it will support your relationship! This is about both finding the masculine and feminine within and learning how to work with those energies in yourself and others. We encourage you to consider whether you’d prefer to share a room or have more space to explore independently. If you’d rather embark on this journey together, that’s perfectly fine as well.
Yes, of course. If you decide to bring a friend, please consider whether they are someone who holds you back or someone who helps you grow, delve deeper within yourself, and fosters deeper connections with others.
You’re responsible for your own travel. Most people will fly into Tucson International Airport. The Ranch is about 40 minutes south of the airport. As we get closer to the retreat dates, we will help connect participants to make it easier to share rides or Uber from the airport to the ranch. We do not recommend renting a car, as once we are at the ranch, you won’t be leaving, and the car will just be sitting unused.
We have a detailed packing list to ensure you’ll have all you’ll need for your entire stay. It will be sent via email upon registration.
Everyone is welcome, and we will do our best to accommodate specific dietary needs. Please let us know if you have any special requests or concerns.
This is not a faith-based or explicitly spiritual retreat. However, we will be bringing different rituals and ceremonies from our backgrounds in service to learning and healing. We invite you to open different ways of being to support your growth.
Leadership
Melanie Paez
Melanie Paez is a sanctuary for the soul, blending wisdom, compassion, and strength to guide others toward profound transformation.
As a Professional Certified Coach and founder of Chief Executive Angel, she primarily supports executives and entrepreneurs in achieving both success and personal fulfillment, focusing on no longer leaving parts of themselves out to move toward their goals.
Specializing in life transitions, Melanie offers integration coaching for both retreats and plant medicine ceremonies. A certified Reiki Master, she brings a calming presence to moving energy both within the body and the mind. Her approach balances gentleness with rigor, fostering real, lasting change.
She loves solo-travel and learning about consciousness and healing practices throughout time. She is often affectionately described as a heart with legs, and she spends much of her time deepening her most meaningful relationships.
Chelsea Cotton
Chelsea embodies the radical power of following one’s soul’s longing. She began her shamanic journey at 13, guided by Q’ero elders, deepening her connection to nature. This initiation opened her heart to living in harmony with the Earth.
Her journey took her across continents in service—from assisting births in a Tanzanian hospital to advocating for women’s rights in India. This experience deepened her commitment to social justice, which she furthered by earning a double major in Women’s Studies and Ethnic Studies from Mills College.
Chelsea has served in leadership roles in non-profits and the corporate sector, blending her passion for community and healing. As a Feral Visionary Coach, she uses soul-centered modalities like shadow work, energy healing, and grief work to guide personal transformations.
Outside her transformative work, Chelsea finds solace wandering the woods, reconnecting with the Earth, and rediscovering herself.
Alex Terranova
Alex guides men to become the leaders their companies and families can be proud of.
Alex is deeply devoted to his wife, Evin, the family they are creating, and his own personal growth and expansion as a man and leader. Alex is an Executive and Leadership Coach, 2x Author, and Sacred Guide who has helped hundreds of individuals and organizations transcend mental barriers, unlock their boundless potential, and support men in healing, growing, and expanding as leaders at work and home.
His unique coaching style, described as “cutting through the bullshit while powerfully channeling spirit in the moment,” has helped businesses grow, marriages heal, parenting improve, and new leaders develop, fostering increased happiness, peace, and fulfillment for individuals and companies.
Alex is obsessed with his wiener dog Cali, and his cat Tucker, and he loves the gym and a spiritual plant medicine ceremony. Something you’d never know is that Alex created an online bachelor-style contest to meet his wife, Evin.
Bob Conlin
Bob is, first and foremost, a father to his son, Forest, and a deeply passionate and loving husband to his wife, Shona.
Bob is a visionary alchemist, coach, and leader who believes that our relationships have the power to shape our life experiences.
We can create powerful and fulfilling relationships that enrich our lives by taking responsibility for our generational traumas, triggers, and limiting beliefs.
Bob’s unique and courageous approach to creating relationships has been featured on ABC World News Tonight, CBS, NBC, and Good Morning America. His experience spans almost a decade; he has become a Master Certified Coach with the International Coaching Federation and authored Why My Relationships Suck: Create Strong Relationships with Courage and Heart.
Bob lives in Chicago, loves singing Ikaros and beating a drum at a fire circle as much as playing metal and screaming into a microphone. He often brags about how he can bench over 315 lbs. Something you’d never expect about Bob is that he was center stage in a global viral story about the birth of his son. Google his name and “Date Night Dad.”
Ready to Transform?
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OUR VISION
To create a loving global legacy of bold men fully expressed in their purpose, families, and communities. By forging both masculine strength and nurturing feminine spirit, we empower men to heal, grow, and find balance, cultivating wisdom, fulfillment, and spiritual connection to leave a lasting impact of love and positive change.
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There are single private rooms and shared rooms. Friends or couples who wish to share a room can make that request. Individuals who choose a shared room will be sharing with someone of the same sex.